A Gift for Everyone

Unfortunately, I attended a funeral this weekend. It's never high on anyone's list of favorite things to do.

People are sad and for good reason. But two things stood out to me much more than the grieving. First, the dedication of Nathan's friends. I couldn't imagine losing my wife and I hope I never have to go through that. Nathan's friends, though, stood by his side and rallied around him in the toughest of times. That's the true definition of a friend.

Their actions reminded me of my failures as a friend and thanks to them, I'll know how to respond if something ever happens to one of my friends.

The other thing I was reminded of this weekend is the peace and comfort we can find in God. Many people spoke about fond memories and fun times with Lindsey. Some were friends, some were cousins and aunts and uncles. Some cried while speaking. But some laughed and smiled, and it was evident to me, and I'm sure every other person in the building, that there was rare peace in the hearts of those particular individuals that only God can give.

Lindsey's dad went to the front and it would be quite understandable if he wondered why this all happened. But he didn't question anything. He stood up, thanked the friends and the family and said that he wished he could return the favor but he only had one thing to offer: Jesus Christ. He went on to say that without Jesus in his life, there would have been no way he could have possibly stood and spoke. Jesus was his strength and the reason he had a peace in his heart on that day. He told every person in attendance that the peace was available to them, as well.

It was incredible to see his faith in action. I am so fortunate to not just have a large family but a large family that is passionate about Christ. I too echo Uncle Albert's message. Difficult times are much easier to navigate when you have a relationship with Jesus. I have seen it and experienced it. Knowing that Jesus has saved me and conquered death and suffering through His death on the cross and resurrection gives me confidence that nothing is too much to overcome.

If any one reading this blog is needing that peace and comfort, I would be more than happy to talk with you about it. You can e-mail me at ehulsey@mercyhurst.edu or give me a call. The Bible is the best place for answers to questions, but here is one passage that might help. And here's another.